The Truth About Kissing - As you get older, you might start to see kissing your man as something tame and even a bit lame as you are getting sexual with him. What you'll find is that it is tame if you kiss him non-stop and all-the-time.
But if you kiss your man more sparingly and really kiss him with passion when you do kiss, then it's going to be a lot hotter and a much bigger turn on for him, especially when you take control of kissing him.
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So the next time when you are starting physical foreplay with your man, don't wait for him to start kissing you, take a little control, grab him and kiss him with passion. You'll be surprised to see just how much this foreplay idea turns your man on.
Compliment Your Man - Your man may pretend to be 'all man', a guy who is tough and never needs others to make him feel good about himself. Your boyfriend certainly may be 'all man', but even if he doesn't say it, he'll still really appreciate getting genuine compliments from you.
Complimenting your man is a great way to both show him how much you care about him as well as massaging his ego. Massaging your man's ego is an awesome way to turn him on in a way that isn't necessarily physical. There are just 2 rules that you need to know when complimenting him.
- Be genuine. Don't tell him things you don't really believe yourself.
- Don't go overboard. There is no need to compliment him 50 times a day. A few times a week is perfect.
Play Fighting - Play fighting with your man is one of the weirder foreplay ideas that I recommend. It's a great way to start getting physical with him in a fun way. Play fighting with your man is just like when you joked around with friends when you were a kid. It's nothing serious, just a bit of fun.
The only hard thing about play fighting with your man is starting it in a way that's natural. It's easiest when you're both in bed together. The key is joking around with your man first. Pretend to misinterpret something he said and give him a flirty push away or a gentle punch.
Joke with him that you think you're stronger. Ask him in a flirty way if he thinks he's stronger than you and then ask him to prove he is. Again the whole purpose of all of this is to start play fighting with him.
There is something that many couples find very erotically charged about play fighting with each other. For many it's like a gentle form of dominance and submission.
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Using these 4 simple foreplay ideas is going to make your love life a whole lot more interesting. If you want to learn more awesome ways to please your man in bed, like how to give him a perfect blow job, then you may want to take a look at the powerful techniques in this video tutorial on blow jobs. However, if you are more interested in learning how to talk dirty to your man to build sexual tension and turn him on, then you will find this dirty talking video even better!