Keeping sex in any relationship fun, exciting and hot is crucial if you want that initial spark to never, ever fade. That's why I have put together this list of fun, sexy, flirty text messages to use on your partner whenever you feel like things are getting boring.
(P.S. If you want to learn my best dirty talking tips & techniques, you'll find them in this powerful video. Enjoy!)
Remember: just because this is a list of text messages, it doesn't mean that you can't use them to try sexting with your man over Facebook, email, IM, Twitter or even when talking on the phone.
Before I actually get to the list of flirty text messages to use on your man, I need to give you a little disclaimer first. This is just so that when you do use them, they are super effective and also to make sure that you don't accidentally misuse them.
The most important thing to know when using a text message to flirt with your man is that it should be used as a spice, not as the main course. What I mean by this is that you should use them sparingly. If every second text message you send your man is a sexy text, then it's quickly going to get boring and they will lose their intended effect very quickly.
The next thing that you must understand is that flirty does not necessarily mean filthy. Sure, some flirty text messages that you can send will sound a little risque, but they don't have to. In fact, you are going to quickly discover that the more subtle your message is and the more that it's filled with innuendo, the more powerful that it will be.
Lastly, you will find that sending your man a flirty text message can be the perfect way to build anticipation and keep him thinking about you for a long, long time before you even hang out together.
By the way, if you are looking to learn how to give your man an incredible oral sex, you may be interested in watching this tutorial video, where I'll teach you everything you need to do to blow his mind.
So now that we have covered some of the important things to keep in mind if you want these flirty text messages to be effective, let's learn exactly what to send.
- Why do I always think of you when I'm trying to concentrate on studying...Grrr, hate you so much right now!
- What would you do if I told you that I have an identical twin sister?
- Had trouble sleeping last night, needed you there snuggling me.
- Would you be mad if we made Saturday 'Naked Day'?
- Should I wear a short skirt tonight or a really short skirt?
- If you could only do one thing sexually with me for the rest of your life, what would it be?
- I think I just saw you or someone that looked just like you, are you wearing a green turtleneck today?
- I'm thinking about becoming celibate for the rest of my life, what do you think?
- What would you like me to wear tonight?
- I had a dream about you last night, it was hot!
- Do you think you could beat me in an arm wrestle?
- I've got a surprise for you later, I think you're going to really like it ;)
- I was thinking of dressing up in something hot tonight, what would you prefer, maid or nurse?
- I'm wearing a colored bra today, guess what color!
- Explain something to me—what's the big deal with threesomes?
- Stop thinking about me! It's hard isn't it ;)
Please don't think you have to use every single one of these flirty messages on your man. Just pick and choose the ones that you like and use them. If you are just starting a relationship with your man, then you probably don't want to use any of the more risque or sexual text messages at first. Lastly don't be afraid to change, adapt and modify these messages slightly to fit your life and your man. So you could change 'studying' to 'working', etc.
More Firty, Dirty Talking Tips - The flirty text messages you have just read are some of my more basic ones. If you want to learn my more advanced and 'out there' examples, along with how to give great oral sex, then you'll find everything on the Bad Girl's Bible site. Click here to find out more.