C) Your Body Language. If you tell your man, "I love your bum in those jeans" but you are not even looking at him and your body language is completely closed off, then he'll know that you don't really mean what you are saying. But if you maintain eye contact and are facing him and touching him then it's going to much more effective.
Okay, these are just some the most basic aspects on why and how to talk dirty from the detailed dirty talking section on the Bad Girl's Bible. Now it's time to learn some dirty talk examples!
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Dirty Talk Before Sex (these also work great over the phone or as text messages or even Facebook messages)
1. I need to feel you inside me.
2. I get wet just thinking about the last time we had sex.
3. I feel so weak and turned on at the same time when I'm in your arms.
4. I want to give you the best blowjob you've ever had.
5. I want you to slowly kiss me from my lips, down my neck, onto my breasts and all the way down to my vagina (feel free to reword this to something even dirtier if you like)
6. I just want to be used by you tonight. Can I be your personal sex toy?
7. I can't wait until we're both alone so that I can blow your mind.
8. I want to tie you up later and have my way with you.
9. Feeling you on top of me and in control is the hottest thing ever!
10. I was thinking about you last night before I went to sleep...
11. I love how you look at me when we're together, it's so hot!
Dirty Talk During Sex
12. Just lie back and let me take care of business.
13. I love feeling your penis get bigger in my hands!
14. Keeping going, keep going!
15. I love how you taste.
16. Don't stop, it feels so good!
17. You dominating me is such a turn on.
18. I want to feel you orgasm inside me.
19. Stop talking and just do me!
20. I never want you to stop, it feels so good.
21. I want you to orgasm in my mouth.
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More Powerful Dirty Talking Examples - The dirty talking examples you have just read are some of my more basic ones. If you want to learn my more advanced and 'out there' examples, along with how to give a great blowjob, then you'll find everything on the Bad Girl's Bible site as well as my free newsletter. Click here to find out more.