A LOT better.
And let’s face it, the better you know each other the more intimate your relationship will be at every level.
The less you feel like strangers, the more you feel like partners.
The problem for most new couples is that they go on a two or three hour date a couple of times per week, max…assuming they live relatively close to each other.
(Don’t even get me started on that one.)
Well, how are you supposed to get to know each other in such short “hit and run” spurts like that?
So how do you solve the problem?
You plan a road trip, that’s how.
If you know how to listen, you’ve already figured out what she likes to do and where she’d like to visit.
So make a plan. Set aside a weekend and spend some real “windshield time” together.
In fact, if the two of you can coordinate some time off from work together, make it a three-to-five day trip and splurge for plane tickets to wherever the rental car will be waiting for you.
Get away…together. But make SURE to do lot’s of driving around.
Simply put, if you continue to get along incredibly well when you’re sequestered in a car together for 1000 miles or so, that’s a GREAT sign.
It means you’ll be that much CLOSER to each other, and that much further along in the “get to know you” process.
And hey, if you end up at each other’s throats instead, at least you’ll know what’s up.
Either way, planning the trip is a great idea.
By the way, do this sort of thing at least twice before putting a ring on any woman’s finger.
5) GO TO THE ABSOLUTE MIDDLE OF NOWHERE AND JUST TALK
You’ve seen this in movies time and again, and you know it works like catnip with women.
Yet, we as guys are either too lazy or too intimidated by “conversation” to make it happen, aren’t we?
You know she likes you. You know she trusts you.
So figure out a safe but secluded place where nobody else is likely to be around, grab a blanket, and just take her there.
Give the weather a quick check. Clear is great, partly cloudy is better. Make sure it isn’t going to be windy.
Know what the temperature is going to be like, and bring an extra jacket for her even if the projected low temp still seems warmish to you.
And the killer: Give the lunar calendar a quick check. Plan this evening together on a night where there is either full moonlight or NO moonlight.
In fact, if you can get far enough out of town where the city lights are long gone, go ahead and aim for the stars. It’s amazing. Save the moonlight for the second time around.
Pick her up and take her to your location of choice right before sunset starts, and enjoy the sunset.
Hang out until the sunset gives way to moonlight or an incredible starlit splendor.
Allow that feeling that the two of you are all that matters in the whole universe to take over…and enjoy the feeling of masculine power that gives you.
There’s no way she’d be out there by herself, is there?
The sunset will have given you plenty to talk about, as the stars will give you even more.
From there, the conversation gets deeper and deeper…and so will her intense desire for you.
As always, it’s important not to get sexually impatient here.
ENJOY getting to know her. Really. Discover what really makes each other tick.
There’s plenty of time for more “physical” stuff later. So be careful how soon you look into her eyes and kiss her.