How To Turn Her Attraction Into Absolute Loving Devotion (Part One)

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How To Turn Her Attraction Into Absolute Loving Devotion (Part One)

You’ll see what I mean as you read on.

And if you don’t, save your brainwashed e-mails telling me that showing any positive concern for women at all beyond nailing them is for wusses.

Good luck with that. Maybe someday you’ll get the difference sorted out, at which time the rest of this newsletter will be meaningful to you.

So here we go…five guaranteed ways to turn her attraction into absolute loving devotion:

1) Take Care Of Her When She’s Sick

I’m not talking about waiting on her hand and foot as she whines, complains and makes demands like a spoiled brat.

For starters, the greatest woman you’ve ever met WON’T behave like that.

More than likely, when you find out she’s not feeling well she’ll simply tell you she’s bummed out that she got a cold or whatever and hopes to get well soon so she can hang out with you again.

And THAT’S where you spring into action.

Now, granted, there are a couple of assumptions that must be made here.

First, you’ll want to make sure she doesn’t have some crazy tropical disease that’s highly contagious.

Second, she’s got to be at least comfortable with you dropping by to see her—regardless of what she said.

But with those two minor considerations covered, you can have a GOLDEN opportunity here.

Now, knowing how mortified some women can be to see a guy like you when they’re not at their best, it’s going to take an amazing woman to even AGREE to what I’m about to suggest.

But if you TELL HER on the phone that you want to cheer her up by bringing her some of that great chicken soup from the restaurant you had lunch at together, she just may agree to it.

When you get to her place, place the soup on her nightstand.

Say VERY LITTLE, but make it light. Perhaps even something humorous about either her room or her circumstances.

Then, tuck her covers around her, kiss her on the forehead, and whisper in her ear that she’s still pretty cute even when she’s not feeling well.

Then LEAVE.

This is NOT about trying to crawl in bed with her (even if SHE suggests it).

You’ve already shown her that she has some sort of meaning to you beyond sexual conquest by showing up.

Now prove it by letting her get some rest.

This will blow her away.

And even if she flatly refuses to let you see her when she’s sick (which is probable) rest assured there will be a sparkle in her eye when you hang up the phone having brought it up.

She’ll know you’re different. And she’ll like it…a lot.

2) PLAY HER A SONG

If you play guitar—even a little—you already know how powerful this can be.

There’s just something about music that melts a woman’s heart, especially if that music is FOR her, FROM you.

The level of intimacy it creates is nothing short of magic…seriously.

Pick a song to play that sums up what you’d like to say to her, and don’t even worry about the words being a bit too “mushy” or something.

In fact, here’s the crazy part. The same lyrics that would come off as too “over the top” if simply spoken are often STONE-COLD PERFECT when in the context of a song.

I’d venture to say that the more you tease her and/or come off like a pretty hard guy in normal conversation, the BETTER OFF you are finding a song with pretty emotional lyrics.

It’ll just give her a window into a deeper part of your soul. She’ll love you for this.

If you can WRITE a song, even better.

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