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• This is the saddest and most complicated of problems, and I want you to know how very sad I am that you are going through this. You would be wise to think of what has happened to your family as severe dysfunction and find a therapist you can talk with and trust to help you through this turbulence. As you well know, your sister has some very difficult emotional problems, and right now is just now seeing clearly at all. She is using slivers of perceptions (hers) to justify behavior that she must feel very guilty about. However, her behavior shows that she desperately needed love and connection, as do you, and that both of you found someone untrustworthy to seek it from. I urge you to get help and to keep strong and centered for your little ones and your own well being, and I wish you each so well. SaraKay Smullens SEE MORE

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• I see this as very wise thinking. The following comment also shows compassion for both you and your partner. I wish you both so well! Please talk to each other. SaraKay SEE MORE

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• I would be interested in knowing what first attracted you to the woman you have shared with for four years and why you began living together at that time. She most likely interests similar to yours then, and the same physical appeal as she does now. Plus she seems like a very patient and kind woman. There are times when an intimacy problems masks itself as "I wish she or he were different" --- when that is not the true problem at all. I would suggest finding a therapist to talk with about this. Before leaving a truly quality person, it is wise to do some honest introspection. SEE MORE

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• It is really important for you to have a full medical check up. If there is no reason for this physically, it would be very wise for you to talk to a therapist about why you think this is happening. Please do not despair. I have seen again and again that the "talking cure" --- some really sound conversation in a therapist's office can be so helpful. I wish you so well and know that this can be solved. Make that first step --- a doctor's appointment. SEE MORE

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• It really would be a very good idea to see a counselor or therapist for a few sessions if things do not iron themselves out with time. Very good suggestion, BookMama! To be continued, SaraKay SEE MORE

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Yours is a very sad, yet a very common problem. Thank you for your honesty. Have you and your wife ever considered talking to a professional counselor or therapist about this? It is surely not to late! SaraKay
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This is a very interesting post. I also know of happily married couples who, if they can afford it, find or build homes with separate, adjoining bedrooms. This is surely not what my husband and I would want, but there reasons that make great sense, Interestingly, several hesitate to tell their friends and families about these decisions, and when guests arrive, describe the second bedroom as a guest room.
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This is a very interesting post. I also know of happily married couples who, if they can afford it, find or build homes with separate, adjoining bedrooms. This is surely not what my husband and I would want, but there reasons that make great sense, Interestingly, several hesitate to tell their friends and families about these decisions, and when guests arrive, describe the second bedroom as a guest room.
Posted on: Unexpected Change: "I Don't Want Guys To Spend The Night"
This is a very interesting post. I also know of happily married couples who, if they can afford it, find or build homes with separate, adjoining bedrooms. This is surely not what my husband and I would want, but there reasons that make great sense, Interestingly, several hesitate to tell their friends and families about these decisions, and when guests arrive, describe the second bedroom as a guest room.
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I deeply respect your determination not to needlessly suffer any longer, knowing that you deserved respect, caring and tenderness from your partner. Achieving this takes two! SaraKay
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