Instead of standing around waving your hands and body in front of him, trying to get his attention, you'll be like a bright beacon of good feelings for him. He’ll get that you’re a warm, safe, wonderful place to be—but that you won't let him close to you unless he makes you feel good.
That’s because you know how to take care of yourself and live a happy life, but to get close to you and share in that happiness, he’s the one who has to move forward and make the effort.
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