How To Get His Attention Without Even Trying

By Rori Raye. Posted on Nov 19th 2010.

Instead of standing around waving your hands and body in front of him, trying to get his attention, you'll be like a bright beacon of good feelings for him. He’ll get that you’re a warm, safe, wonderful place to be—but that you won't let him close to you unless he makes you feel good.

That’s because you know how to take care of yourself and live a happy life, but to get close to you and share in that happiness, he’s the one who has to move forward and make the effort.

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