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3 Relationship Myths That Get In The Way of Love

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3 Relationship Myths That Get In The Way of Love

When you can embrace your feelings and communicate them to a man in plain language and in a way that does not blame or criticize him, a man will breathe a sign of relief. At last he has met a woman who can relate to him without letting her emotions control her!

How does this work in practice? Say he’s late. Instead of telling him, “I can’t believe you’re late again; it’s so inconsiderate!” You could try: “I feel really frustrated when I’m waiting for someone. I don’t like waiting, and I don’t want to hide that from you. What do you think we can do to work this out?”

Not only are you giving him the chance to resolve the issue with you, but you are also keeping your feelings from festering inside and leading to anger. You’re keeping the communication lines open, and this leads to a closer, more connected relationship.

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Having a good relationship requires undoing some of the old patterns and habits that have been getting in the way of love. To learn how to do this to inspire a man’s lifelong devotion. subscribe to Rori’s free e-newsletter here: http://www.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?s=30961. You’ll learn entirely new ways to relate to a man that will bring him closer and make him see you as the one woman he can’t be without.

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