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Hi there! I am Ronda Wada. I am a life fulfillment mentor, coach, co-creator with the universe and a reformed nice girl. Not to worry! I am not prone to rude outbursts, it’s just that like many of you I spent a large part of my life being the “good” girl, doing what I was told, and following the path that was laid before me. Generally the next step I took was the most logical and expected choice but I never really stopped to check in with me and what I might really want.
Then one day at the end of my brief second marriage, this one question kept repeating in my head….”How did I get HERE?” I followed the rules. I did all the things I was supposed to. I had all the things they said would make me happy. Yet here I was. A single (again) mom of two with yet another failed relationship. I don’t mean to make all of this sound so dramatic. Outwardly, it really didn’t look too messy. I had most of my life pretty much under control and I was the one that had told him to leave after all.
The realization I had was that I was living someone else’s life! Not like invasion of the body snatchers or anything but this certainly wasn’t the life I had planned! When I was in high school I dreamed on living in New York City and going to The Fashion Institute of Design & Merchandising. Instead, I sold myself short and went to a lesser acclaimed school on the opposite side of the country because my boyfriend’s family had moved there and of course I wanted to be with him forever didn’t I….did I mention I was barely 17?
Five years later, even though we were planning to be together forever, we also agreed that wouldn’t include marriage. One evening I walked in from work and he says “I want a baby.” Of course, rather than saying “No, thank you”, I said “I’m not having a baby unless we are married” thinking that would be the end of that, but no…..The man committed to never getting married so that he would never be divorced is suddenly ready to tie the knot. Did I speak up then? No. Six weeks later we were married.
So, the list goes on and on, with me choosing for everyone else EXCEPT for me in big and not so big ways day after day. That’s how I had gotten there. I really had no idea that I wasn’t actually plotting my own course. No one had modeled that for me or told me that it was even an option. No one had really ever twisted my arm either but I certainly hadn’t seen any evidence that anyone was doing it any differently.
Thus began my journey of discovery and choosing for me. It seemed to happen over night (or five years but who’s counting?) and then again it felt like a lifetime. I was able to reclaim my life and become the author of my own story. It’s not your average fairytale but it is mine to write and your life is yours to write too!
Through my programs, coaching and courses I guide women to become the expert in their own lives by teaching them to trust themselves, their awareness and their ability to live from choice. I am the creator of “Transform Your To-Do List : From Overwhelmed to Overjoyed” and author of the forthcoming book "How Did My Keys Get in the Microwave?”
My twenty-five plus years of past sales and marketing experience has given me an intrinsic understanding of personal interactions and communication skills. I have an uncanny ability to read people, interpret their unconscious desires and aid in translating them into a lifestyle, business or mission that will bring your greatest desires into reality.
I will guide you in creating your “YOUniverse” consciously and intentionally through your daily actions and choices. I am dedicated to empowering your potential and authenticity and leading you to design a life you love, live from inspiration and follow that still small voice inside.
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