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How To Use The Friend Zone To Your Advantage


Don't sweat the "danger zone".

Guys complain to me all the time that they’ve been confined to the friend zone.

They think they should be able to bang every girl they meet, and when they get pushed to the friend zone, they whine about it instead of strategically using it to their advantage.


Here’s the thing, cute chicks hang around cute chicks. If some girl won’t sleep with you but she invites you out with her girls and you become friends, use that to your advantage.

You roll into some bar with six cute girl friends and you’re golden.

Not only does this seriously raise your social value to the other hot girls that you’ll meet at the bar, but cool dudes will want to know you who are, too. They’ll want to befriend you, hang out with you, and do business with you.

The Lesson: Don’t try to bang every chick you meet. Meet girls, be cool and make friends. Those chicks will lead to more chicks and those chicks will lead to even more.

Not feeling confident in your ability to swing this? Click HERE for the Inner Confidence Alignment Grid to learn specific steps you can take right away to increase your confidence with women, friend or girlfriend.

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