The best present you've ever given yourself was coming out, so don't let any Scrooge's put a "bah humbug" on your first holiday out of the closet. Instead, might I suggest: "Gay
You know you want it. Yes, you, Mr. Gay Guy! You're dreaming of success, whatever success means to you. However, those crazy, bitchy voices echo in your head:
You're not talented
You're unable to play the game
You're living a pipe ...
One of the hardest aspects of coming out of the closet is being in relationships. I recently received this inquiry from one of my blog followers here at YourTango.com:
"I loved your article Top 10 Gay Relationship Mistakes That Keep You From Your Man. But how do I deal with my partner's single ...
Sigh: gay dating and mating. Even for the most active, hook-up driven, "Nah-I-just-want-to-have-sex-and-fun" gay guy, at some point along the way, hitting the honest-to-goodness gay dating circuit becomes part of your lifelong coming out journey. It's bound to happen for most of us. If you're ...
Before I open my mouth and insert my foot, before I get all you gay guys worked into a tizzy, I have to say: I don't think there is any such thing as an irreparable mistake. I also believe that everything happens for a purpose. From the perspective of my own designer gay bifocals, mistakes are actually ...