No Re-Runs For Joe Simpson!

By

No Re-Runs For Joe Simpson!
The after math of “coming out” doesn’t diminish simply because you’ve got celebrity in your DNA!

 

  • Yin & Yang Of "Screw You" and "Forgive You." Forgiveness, usually saunters into to play a sustaining role in these types of dramas, right out the gate. Try, try, try, its futile attempts to be heard are overshadowed by the beating pulse of “SCREW YOU!” Rare is the occasion, at least in the initial firestorm, that any cry for absolution can be heard. Acutely focused on revenge, emotions of the heart over power logic, until logic is given a chance to make the case that forgiveness empowers the release so that healing can occur. While there is no “golden rule” how to balance this duality, Joe should anticipate, months and years before a cloak of forgiveness could come his way.
     
  • What’s next? Not to be confused with “When’s the other shoe going to drop?” mentality, often all the players on the field will be asking, “What’s next for me, for us?” Major life transitions lead to “Y’s” in the road that often have never been traversed. Whether you’re the Jessica, Ashlee, or Tina being left in the wake of the aftermath, or the Joe who appears to be skipping off to live his happy, happy, gay life, know this. No one gets through divorce, death, career transitions, births, or a spouse coming out of the closet without feeling and wondering, “What’s next, and can I truly survive this?” If you’re deep in this feeling then ask this one question, “If I knew what was next, what would I be feeling?” Could be that you’d feel more stress, angst, and uncertainty. On the other hand you might feel freed, optimistic, and happier. No matter how the question gets answered, simply letting yourself come to the answer rather than forcing it, will take some of the stress off your shoulders.
  • Given the fact that this story will soon fade into the hither and yon of the past, the one thing to be considered for all concerned, is how soon can they let the story fade into their past so they can be fully in their new present? How about you? What are you still holding onto from your past relationship(s) that you need to let slip into the past rather than letting it continue to play as a re-run in your life?

    Ready to release your anger and frustration? Need help mastering your own "coming out journey?" Whether you're the individual "coming out" or the someone facing the reality that the person you thought you knew just "came out," there's powerful, purposeful ways to take the energy and thrive! CLICK HERE for a complimentary consultation today and learn how "coming out" can be a powerful journey into a better tomorrow!

    Article contributed by

    Rick Clemons

    Author

    Rick Clemons, The Gay Man's Life Coach & The Coming Out Coach

    Rick is a straight-forward, compassionate, insightful, challenging, mentor, guide, and Certified Professional Coach who's been featured on The Ricki Lake Show, and is a highly sought after radio show personality, blogger, author, and faculty member of Sex Coach U. His loving, challenging, gentle, and inspiring approach ignites a fire in clients, helping them get through the darkest moments of life and come out the other side, kicking butt, and being authentically themselves.

    Rick thrives, working with individuals, and those in their inner circle, as they embark on the journey out of the closet and beyond. He specializes in helping people build confidence, live their passion while loving their work, and live authentically. Authenticity isn't just a word he throws around lightly. It's the backbone of his practice and the manner in which he personnally strives to live each and every day of his own life.

    Join Rick's Monthly "Guyz Like Us" Free Coaching Call For Gay Men!

    Connect with Rick through his Coming Out & Life Coaching Newsletter.

    Schedule A Discovery Session - Click Here

    Twitter - @rickclemons
    Facebook -The Gay Man's Life Coach & Rick The Coming Out Coach
    You Tube Channel -The Gay Man's Life Coach & Coming Out Coach

    Location: Riverside, CA
    Credentials: ACC, CPC
    Specialties: LGBT Issues (Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender), Men's Issues, Sexuality
    Other Articles/News by Rick Clemons:

    I'm Gay And I Know How To Get A Girlfriend Better Than You Do

    By

    Let's not jump to conclusions and assume that because you're reading this article, you're flirting with your own version of 50 Shades Of Gay. It's OK to absorb a gay guy's perspective on dating and relationships. It wasn't too long ago, after all, that Queer Eye For The Straight Guy became a rockin' little empire. The men on it ... Read more

    Life Lessons From A Man Who Just Turned 51

    By

    Today is my birthday. Not a milestone one by some accounts, but from my perspective it is. I'm no longer the Big 5-0, I'm now officially 50+. A distinction that most people either love or hate. Personally I'm going for a deep dive into the "Let's live like we're dying" tank and moving on until my journey takes me off this ... Read more

    Are Closeted Gay Men Cheaters?

    By

    Emotional, physical, and intimate disconnects often lead to infidelity. So does hiding in the closet. But who's to blame for the "hidden agenda?" In my five years as The Coming Out Coach, I've worked with a little over 100 people from all walks of life, who have finally taken that brave step forward to be honest with themselves about their ... Read more

    See More

    PARTNER POSTS
    Latest Expert Videos
    Ask The Experts

    Have a dating or relationship question?
    Visit Ask YourTango and let our experts and community answer.

    Most Popular