Have Hotter Sex Using Your Core Energy!


Have Hotter Sex Using Your Core Energy!
Uncover your energy blocks to keep it hard, have multiple orgasms, and enjoy afternoon delights.

Yawn. Sex is sex. If that’s the case for you, I’m sorry to hear that! There’s a good chance unlocking and understanding your inner energy towards sex could change everything. Quite honestly, since I uncovered my core energetic profile, and came to understand how I energetically show up in all aspects of life, my sex life rocks even more...and not just because I’m a gay man. Now, you may be saying to yourself, “Core energy. So what? It must be a New Age LA thing.” Actually, it’s not. Core energy work is being used all over the world to help people reduce stress, increase the productivity, and of course, to have deeper more intimate relationships which includes HOTTTER SEX.

From my own personal experience, tapping into my default and secondary energies, and knowing my primary stress energies, I am now better equipped to ask for what I want, accept what my partner is willing give, and better able to understand what my partner desires when we head for the pleasure palace called the bedroom, sometimes the living room, and even the dining room, when the hunger hits us. This is not woo woo, fad of the month stuff. The more you know about your energetic self, how to shift your energies, and what your mate or playmates energy is, the more likely you are to experience deeper more intimate relationships – in and out of the bedroom.  You’re probably asking, "What does all this mean and how can I get me some energy insight to start rockin' my Sleep Number?"

Simple! First you have to be willing to explore and open up to the concept that energy exists in, around us, as well as in everything we do. Our thoughts, feelings, emotions, and behaviors are energy, and dictate how we enter into our sexual relations. For instance, “Having sex” comes from a completely different energy space than “Making love.” The ability to identify yours and your partners’ energy enables you to vibrate at a much different energetic frequency, no pun intended. However, vibrators can and do enhance the energy of the sexual experience for many couples – gay or straight – so bring them on and let them enhance the sexual experience - if that's in your bag of tricks.

There are 7 sexual energies we all are capable of experiencing. Once these are identified and understood for you individually, and as a couple (with a little help from a sexual energy professional), then fireworks, sensual savvy, and “OMG’s” prevail – however and whenever they are meant to fit into the sexual activity of your life.

#1 HoHum, What’s The Point – this is the hopeless sexual energy. No amount of manual stimulation, just right penetration, or foreplay will get either one of you off or into sexual Euphoria, when sex is approached from this perspective. To move forward may require a complete overhaul of how you or your partner view life and sex. This energy can be situational or chronic. If chronic, it is highly recommended that the help of a mental health professional be sought.

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Rick Clemons


Rick Clemons, The Gay Man's Life Coach & The Coming Out Coach

Rick is a straight-forward, compassionate, insightful, challenging, mentor, guide, and Certified Professional Coach who's been featured on The Ricki Lake Show, and is a highly sought after radio show personality, blogger, author, and faculty member of Sex Coach U. His loving, challenging, gentle, and inspiring approach ignites a fire in clients, helping them get through the darkest moments of life and come out the other side, kicking butt, and being authentically themselves.

Rick thrives, working with individuals, and those in their inner circle, as they embark on the journey out of the closet and beyond. He specializes in helping people build confidence, live their passion while loving their work, and live authentically. Authenticity isn't just a word he throws around lightly. It's the backbone of his practice and the manner in which he personnally strives to live each and every day of his own life.

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