Building your man up is not the same as being subservient, and it isn't a one-way street. He should be letting you know what's great about you, too. If you're not being thanked or told how amazing you are and you're feeling unappreciated, you've got some thinking to do about your relationship. Either he's a shy guy or not accustomed to it, so have a loving conversation with him. However, if you think about it and he happens to be a self-centered, narcissistic ass, ditch him.
Never stay where you are not appreciated and celebrated.
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One of my fave magnetic women in history is Josephine Baker. I have gleaned lots of wisdom studying her life. I once taught an entire lesson around how to be irresistible like she was (with 1,500 marriage proposals, she must have known something we didn't). One main takeaway from her life was that she never stayed where she wasn't appreciated.
There are no victims. If someone does something to you and you allow it to happen again, you have chosen to be a victim. Stop blaming men. You can't change them, but you can establish how you want to be treated.
Being the nerd that I am, I will leave you with a handy equation to remember:
Thank You + I Appreciate You + You're amazing = One Happy Man
Love & prosperity,
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