They don’t phone him from the store saying, “I’m at the Christian Louboutin boutique buying some killer stilettos.” No. Instead, they keep it to themselves and just wear them out with him. “What will she wear next” is an intoxicating form of mystique. My man loves and NOTICES anything I do that is different or new.
2) Don’t tell your girlfriends everything.
They don’t spill everything about their relationship or life with their girlfriends. They have what I call a Sensual Secret Garden. It’s a place where you keep your ‘secrets’ that make you feel yummy or rejuvenate.
There’s an “I-want-more-of-her” energy around women like this. So even if you don’t tell your guy everything, blabbing all to your girlfriends will rob you of that air. Plus, he can see and hear you chatting away on the phone with your gal pals for hours – NOT attractive.
3) Talk less. Listen more.
If you find the first two things hard to do, this will help you. The quickest way to bond with someone emotionally is to LISTEN and UNDERSTAND them. The more you listen, the less you’ll be talking about yourself. Even better, your ‘intrigue and mystique factor’ will skyrocket!
Stay tuned. I'll be posting part 2 so you can get all the juicy details.
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