4 Exceptions To 'No Sex On The First Date'

By Rebecca A. Marquis. Posted on Oct 23rd 2012.

... because rules are made to be broken.

4. You're on vacation. Even if you're looking for a serious relationship (while at home), you'll be in vacation mode and probably feel more comfortable living in the moment. Consider it part of the vacation fun. If you can head back home with happy memories and without attachments, you might as well enjoy yourself! Spending quality time with a quality person can only add to your life, even if your time together is short.

Of course, only you can decide when you're ready to sleep with someone. You certainly shouldn't feel pressured by the third date rule or feel pressured to wait. But because the outcomes can differ vastly from our expectations, it is worth giving the decision some thought.

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Rebecca A. Marquis is the author of How to Be a Good Boyfriend: 34 ways to keep her from getting annoying, jealous, or crazy.

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