Of course, knowing about these two types of men is not enough. If you want to be on the track to marriage, you must be a smart woman who knows how to distinguish between the two. Once you identify a true asshole, you must stop letting him into your heart and your bed. This gets tricky--but there are always signs. Look for the red flags, listen to your gut, and when in doubt, run him by me!!
1. Change The Way You Think
When it comes to matters of the heart, we're all guilty of making excuses about why we didn't put ourselves out there. But contrary to popular belief, it isn't easier said than done. Laurel's advice?
"Trying" is a pre-emptive excuse for failure or not doing it at all. Do your best. Have zero excuses. If you don’t find success, make a midcourse correction and try a different tact. Keep at it until you do find success."