Spiritual Crisis Impacts a Relationship

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Spiritual Crisis Impacts a Relationship
When one of you is experiencing a spiritual crisis, it can have a huge impact on the relationship.

I learned a few things on this roller coaster two-year journey:
• Advice, unless it is asked for, is not helpful
• When a person is in crisis, emotions can change from day to day and moment to moment – it’s helpful to be a “non-anxious presence” just to walk alongside
• We are unable to fix another person’s problems
• Gentleness and tenderness are preferred over harshness and task-focus (isn’t this always the case?!)
Affection and physical touch can be reassuring and comforting
• Every day life has moments – no matter how small - that can be and should be celebrated
• Living with gratitude and grace keeps everything in perspective
• We all need meaning, purpose and direction in our lives – and sometimes it’s hard to find.

Finally, after two years, Greg gained vocational clarity, we gained clarity on our future and we transitioned out of pastoral ministry. We now have a new calling - to serve people through Directions, Inc. as they lead their organizations, relationships and lives. We continue to share a passion for helping couples enrich their relationships through Better Marriages.

Last night I was on a flight home after a long weekend. For the third time I was reading Blackbird Singing in the Dead of Night: What to Do When God Won’t Answer. My row mate asked me about what I was reading. I handed her the book and told her how much I was enjoying it. I looked away and felt a smile playing on the corners of m lips. She asked if I knew the author. I looked her in the eye and replied, “I’m sleeping with him.”

Life is interesting. Sometimes, it turns out, the journey is the destination in disguise.

Keep reading. Keep learning. Keep growing!

This article was originally published at Better Marriages . Reprinted with permission.
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