Communicating your likes, dislikes, fantasies, what feels good, what you want them to do, what you are open to try, what you don't like that much, your favorite position, where and how to move… talk about it!
"I'm not saying to lecture or give a speech. But talk. Have a fun back and forth conversation about sex. Don't be insecure or nervous about it. If you're old enough and mature enough to have sex, you should be old enough and mature enough to talk about sex, too," says House. If he can't get you to orgasm, help him! In the midst of it you can guide him a little, give him "I like it when…" direction or "I want you to f*ck me like this…" Don't be pushy. Don't be insulting. But help guide, says House.
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