Touch Me There: The Couples' Guide To Erogenous Zones

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couples' guide to erogenous zones
Challenge #18: Follow this map of erogenous zones for your partner's ultimate pleasure.

You don't have to give your partner hickeys to take advantage of how sensitive the neck is. Let a single finger trail down the skin of the neck as you pleasure your lover down below. Scratch lightly with your fingernails, extending your stroke right down onto the shoulders and chest. Lick and lightly nibble the neck, being careful not to leave a mark (unless that is ok with your partner). Most people don't like heavy breathing right in their ears, so pay attention to your exhale as you explore this area. Be precise and deliberate and you'll leave your partner gasping for more. Pleasure Mechanics

Go slow ... the slower the better! Have him close his eyes and feel your lips kissing his eyelids and forehead. Look into his eyes. Move agonizingly slow. Trace a line. Tease. Build the tension. —Dr. Tina Schermer Sellers


One of my clients loves to have her man lick the back of her knee very slowly and sensually (right where the leg bends).  She feels the tingles go right up her leg, and feels waves of pleasure moving throughout her body. —Karen Jones

The spine is the superhighway of the nervous system, so stimulating the spine can create intense full body sensations. Try running your tongue directly up the spine, all the way from the sacrum to the head. The sacrum—the flat triangular bone at the bottom of the spine—is another amazing area to explore. Massage all around the edges of the bone to release tension and create more blood flow. Pleasure Mechanics

As you can tell, an erogenous zones is not as simple as your privates—it can be any area of the body especially sensitive to stimulation. Your partner's body is one big erogenous zone, so explore, touch, caress and tantalize the hotspots we've exposed. (You can thank us, later.)

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