Is your libido fizzling in the summer heat wave? Here are five ways to beat the heat and enjoy more summer sex.
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1. Chill Out Together: Summer is the perfect time to get dirty while getting clean. Invite your lover into the shower and make out (or more) under a nice cooling spray of water. In other seasons it is easy to catch a chill if you aren't under the water directly. In these hot summer months, you can linger in the shower together. Full on shower sex can be quite dangerous and uncomfortable—but the shower is perfect for full body touch, using your hands to pleasure your lover and exchanging oral sex.
2. Go On A Sensuality Filled Date: Head to a local ocean, lake or river and take a dip outdoors. Soak in the cool water, then dry off under the sun. Pay attention to the sensuality of your swim and amp up the sexy factor by touching one another under water, wrapping your legs around your lover, treading water together, or playfully splashing one another. Put sunscreen on one another with long, massage-like strokes, savoring the chance to touch one another's entire body. Pack a cooler of cold fruit, fizzy drinks and savory protein. Feed one another as you bask in the sun. Add a walk through the woods or along the coast and collect beautiful objects from your surroundings, or take photos as you stroll. Saturate yourself in sensual pleasures and when you get home, jump in bed and amp up the sensual to sexual!
3. Spray and Play: No air conditioning? Here is a sexy way to beat the heat! Get a clean spray bottle from any drugstore or hardware store. Fill it up with cold water. For bonus points, add some rose water. Then set up a few fans around your bed and take turns misting one another as the fans cool you off. This technique makes it possible to have playful, vigorous sex even when the temperature is soaring! Keep Reading...
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