Who Says The Missionary Position Is Boring?

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Hot Sex Positions: Who Says The Missionary Position Is Boring?
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7. Get Rough
He's not the only one who can be a little rough during missionary position sex! Just because you are on your back doesn't mean you have to be passive. Get feisty and experiment with being a little rough. Scratch his back lightly at first and as his arousal builds scratch him even harder. You can also try slapping his chest or back. Start playfully and if he responds well, keep turning up the volume while paying attention to his reactions. Bite his neck and shoulders, while keeping in mind that you may leave marks! Keep your hardest love bites below his collar line so he doesn't have to explain your sexy marks to his coworkers!

8. Whisper Into Your Lover's Ear
Take advantage of the closeness of the missionary position by clinging to your lover's body and whispering into his ear. What you say is up to you. You can whisper sweet things like "I love you", or get as raunchy as you want. This is a good strategy if you are shy about talking dirty in bed. By whispering into his ear you can practice saying things that you wouldn’t normally say (it is just a whisper, after all!) Your guy will be turned on by hearing your voice and may get sent over his edge, so proceed with caution if you want sex to last longer!

9. Explore the Coital Alignment Technique (CAT)
The Coital Alignment Technique is a technique to gain more clitoral friction while in the missionary position. The basic technique involves the man shifting forward so his penis penetrates at a more vertical angle. The goal is rubbing the clitoris with the base of the penis and pelvic bone as he thrusts downwards. The CAT technique is a little awkward at first, but if you can make it work you may find that intercourse becomes much more pleasurable. Click here for more guidance on exploring the Coital Alignment Technique to enhance missionary position sex!

10. Breathe More To Feel More
If you simply want to feel more pleasure during missionary position sex, try the most basic yet most effective sexual technique out there: breathing. The more you breathe, the more you feel. Start by taking long, deep, relaxed breaths and pay attention to the sensations in your body. Many people report feeling more expanded pleasure, full body pleasure, streaming or tingling sensations when they breathe deeply during sex. Once you've mastered long and slow breathing, you can try breathing more rapidly. Or, play a game and ask your lover to match the rhythm of his penetration to your breath. This little game will force him to pay close attention to your body, put you in control of the speed of penetration and allow you to feel more sensations as he moves inside you.

With these 10 strategies to play with, you have a lot to explore as you heat up missionary position sex! Remember, adding more pleasure to your sex life should be fun, not stressful. Integrate new techniques slowly, check in with your lover about what they like best and never hesitate to go back to your tried and true pleasures! 

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