Lesbian Sex Tips For Guys

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Lesbian Sex Tips For Guys
Five lesbian sex tips to help you master the art of pleasuring your woman!
  • Lesbian Sex Tip #3: Master The Use Of Your Hands

Most women do not have orgasms from intercourse alone. We need clitoral stimulation to build arousal towards orgasm. Remember, the clitoris is the anatomical match to the penis. So imagine having an orgasm without touching your penis and you can understand the importance of clitoral stimulation. Learn how to use your hands to stimulate her clitoris, g-spot and the entire sexual system. Once you master touching her with your hands, you’ll be able to bring her to orgasm every time. Give her orgasms with your hands first, and only then move on to intercourse. She’ll enjoy the penetration way more once she is warmed up from your expert touch!

What’s better than expert use of your hands? Adding in your mouth! A lot of guys love going down on women and would do it more often if their women let them! When it comes to oral sex, her comfort and ability to receive is just as essential as your willingness to give her oral stimulation. But many women have a lot of trouble relaxing into the pleasures of cunnilingus, so work with her to build her comfort so you can both enjoy more oral pleasure. Many women think they are deformed down there, and hold back out of fear of being abnormal or undesirable. Before she can fully enjoy oral sex, she needs to believe you are happy between her thighs. The first step? Convince her that you love how her genitals look, smell and taste. Praise her most intimate parts until she believes you. Our book on cunnilingus covers both techniques for giving and the skills of receiving, so you can learn together how to relax into the intense pleasures of oral sex. 

  • Lesbian Sex Tip #5: Get Comfortable With Her Erotic Emotions

Has your woman ever cried after an orgasm? Has she ever started laughing uncontrollably? If so, you are not alone. Many women experience intense waves of emotion after orgasm. These emotions are sometimes expressed with tears, laughter or shaking. Learn to stay present with her full emotional expression and you’ll develop a ton of trust between you. Most of the time, it isn’t about you. So don’t get defensive or ask her to explain herself. Just hold her tight, lie with her quietly (or give her space if she says she needs to be alone) and let her know that you adore her no matter what. Allow all of her emotions a place in your bedroom so she doesn’t feel embarrassed feeling her full range of feelings. This will allow her to let go and unleash more of her erotic creature, bringing more passion to your lovemaking and relationship.

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