In sum: work that tea-length taffeta monstrosity with the bow across its behind. Rock that frock with pride. If you someday decide to spend the rest of forever with someone who thinks you're the bee's knees, great. If not, your happily ever after can be whatever else you want. Either way, raise your glass and relish the fact that your life is your own and you can do with it whatever you choose. Do the hokey pokey and turn yourself around. That's what it's all about.
ABOUT THE AUTHOR: Amy Lynch is the community director for Pink Kisses ~ an online community founded by former television reporter, Ellie Scarborough to help women forget their exes and find their inner bombshells.
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