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Sex After 60: How To Stay Sexy As You Age

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Sex After 60: How To Stay Sexy As You Age
Getting older doesn't mean giving up on sex.

Mechanics:
For many men, erections don't occur as quickly as they used to, or sometimes not at all. Fortunately, there are various, easily accessible medications to help relieve this issue. One benefit to this is that sex may last longer, as ejaculation is delayed thus creating a prolonged, enjoyable experience.

Some women may experience vaginal dryness or deterioration of the vaginal tissue, and this can make sex painful. This problem can be solved with over the counter lubricants, which should be water- not oil-based. Another benefit to sex after menopause is that the risk of pregnancy is eliminated.

Setting the mood, the right way:
There are many ways to get in the mood. Spend time doing intimate things like kissing and caressing. This will help the two of you bond, warm up, and enjoy the moment. Try buying some lingerie, or some sensual scented candles and body lotions for massaging one another.

It's important to have sex during times of high energy, such as in the morning or early afternoon. After a meal, in the evening, or later at night, may be tiring and uncomfortable if you feel bloated. Open communication is key if you're trying to spice up your sex life. Talk about what the two of you like, and what feels good. Keep talking during sex, fantasizing, letting your partner know what he or she should do more or less of.

Remember, there's more than one way to skin a cat:
It's important to remember that sex does not exclusively equal intercourse. If the act of intercourse is too painful or uncomfortable, there are other options to pleasure your partner such as manual stimulation or oral sex. Don't be afraid to try sex toys, either. These can be great aids in rediscovering what feels good to you, and can be helpful during sex itself. Shopping together for toys can put the two of you in a sexy mood, increase arousal and desire, and allow you to laugh with each other in the process. The Best Sex Toys for Couples

Embracing life's changes:
You must reject the idea that your sex life has to end when your husband or wife passes away. Once you feel emotionally ready, go out and get yourself a partner! You should not be embarrassed or shy, and you should not resign yourself to the idea that your sex life is over. Romance and physical touch should be with all of us until our last moments.

To really make this advice work, you need to follow these action steps to complete today's challenge.

Right now, I want you to:

Do something for yourself today. Get a makeover, a new hair cut, a new wardrobe, and get yourself feeling the best you can about your appearance. This boosts confidence and radiates attractive energy.

Within 7 days I want you to:

Explore yourself and discover what makes you feel good, and what is most comfortable for you, so that you can help you and your partner get the most out of the experience.

By the end of the challenge I want you to:

Make more time to be together. Talk with your partner, shop together for books or toys, and share romantic dates more often. And remember to try getting sexy together at new times of day.

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