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Why You Should Never Stop Looking For Love [EXPERT]
To ask Orna & Matthew your sex and relationship questions, join them on Facebook Thursday, 4/12 at 2 p.m. EST! We've all heard it at some point on our search for love: "Love shows up when ...Out With The Old & In With The New [EXPERT]
We’ve all heard the saying, “Out with the old and in with the new,” and when it comes to love it couldn’t be more beneficial. There is an exchange of energy that occurs with every person we connect with, and when we are intimate with someone that energetic exchange becomes ...How Do I Keep From Getting Bored?
Watch as Experts Matthew and Orna Walters teach you how to keep your relationship new and exciting!How Do You Learn To Love Yourself?
All the love experts say, "Love Yourself First." HOW? Self-love is an ongoing practice, a way of being. It consists of actions you can take, and it is a way of honoring yourself. Here are some practices you can do to develop self-love. 1. Express your authentic ...Is It Possible To Overcome Betrayal? [EXPERT]
With the split of Ashton Kutcher and Demi Moore hitting the newswire it brings up the question: Can a couple overcome betrayal? We believe it's possible to come out of the other side better and stronger as a couple, however, dramatic changes need to happen in order for the relationship to survive. ...MY QUESTIONS
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- We understand, and felt similar feelings while planning our own wedding.
Our suggestion is to make a list of what is important to you, and have your fiance do the same. Write them out separately, and then come together to discuss what you each wrote down. Most likely you will find some things will overlap and some won't. Now you have an idea of what is important for each of you and can discuss what you'd like to create together. Once you've done this you have the vision for the event.
Here are a couple books we found helpful in planning a wedding that reflects the two of you and your values:
THE ALTERNATIVE WEDDING BOOK published by Northstone (a community of writers so no author on the book, it may be out of print - look for a used copy online).
THE SMART COUPLE'S GUIDE TO THE WEDDING OF YOUR DREAMS by Judith Sherven & James Sniechowski
Ultimately, once you know what is important to each of you, you can begin to make decisions from that base. It also might be helpful for you to write down things you absolutely do not want. We did not do a bouquet toss and had that on our NO List from the beginning.
While planning the wedding we had printed out our top 5 things we desired (or desired to create) and had that visible in our work stations each day so we could see it and be clear on our vision. We only did things we wanted to do. We did not do anything out of obligation to anyone else.
With each decision align your choice with the vision you created together.
Being in alignment with your fiance and having clear communication is of the utmost importance. Planning a wedding can bring up a lot of tension so remember to speak how you are feeling by taking responsibility for those feelings and BREATHE!
Best of luck,
Orna and Matthew
http://CreatingLoveOnPurpose.com
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- This man is clearly TOXIC! End all contact and all ways he has of contacting you. Yes, change your phone number. If you fear for your safety in any way contact the authorities and file a restraining order.
Is this part of a pattern you play out in relationships?
If yes, then there is some work for you to do with your relationship with yourself so you can receive the love you desire.
Most of us continue to play out the same story over and over again creating what is familiar to us. It is possible to break old patterns so you can have what you desire. Working with a professional who works with the subconscious is the key to ending negative patterns.
There is a free audio file you can download at our website: Self Acceptance is The Key to Feeling Loved! Download that at http://CreatingLoveOnPurpose.com
Love and Abundance,
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- Hi Misstyblue,
We are so sorry to hear about this betrayal. Only you can decide if you are able to trust again. We suggest that you take time to really focus on YOU. What you want from the perspective of your true heart's desire (not what your brain thinks is possible).
Take actions that make you feel good and focus on feeling good (it is possible).
Communicate with your man with FEELING STATEMENTS:
I feel ___________.
It will be difficult to navigate through this without support - either together or apart. Look to find the support you need right now with a relationship coach or counselor.
Love and Abundance,
Orna and Matthew
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- Please get out of this abusive situation immediately before it escalates even further. Get support! There are many options available that are free and/or cheap to support you. Your safety and the safety of your children is most important.
We suggest you do not announce that you are leaving him as he has proven to be volatile. Make a plan, execute it and change your phone number too.
Blessings to you,
Orna & Matthew
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