Want Love? Stop Texting!

By Orna And Matthew Walters. Posted on Feb 11th 2013.

While many people are texting and hooking up, it's getting in the way of creating real relationships

Our 24-year old client told us she didn’t completely believe us that a guy would behave the way we told her – until it happened. She didn’t just listen to our coaching, she changed how she communicated, asked for what she wanted, and is now dating a guy for two months who is calling her on the phone, asking her out in advance, and is doing all the pursuing.

So if you are truly interested in creating a relationship, and not just having another hook-up, sweetly let that guy know that you want him to call you if he wants to see you. Once you make your desired form of communication known, ignore the texts asking, “Want to hang out sometime?”

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