You find yourself trusting the feeling often more than the words.
So with your guy, if you want to stop nagging, draw him a picture! Make him a list, leave him a note. Yes, of course, ask him as well. Men do have ears, and what you say registers at some level. But the effectiveness of your communication, his ability to really grasp what you want and actually accomplish it, will be greatly enhanced by your making it visual as well as spoken.
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No, this isn’t about treating men like children. If anything, it’s the exact opposite. It’s respecting that we are different, that we have different ways of communicating, and making the effort to demonstrate that respect.
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