3 Reasons Not To Remain Friends With Your Ex

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It might seem like a good idea, but trust us, it isn't.

3. You won't meet the right guy. It's important to explore the reason you attracted and fell for your ex so you do not repeat the same mistakes. However, when he is in such close contact with you on a regular basis, you won't even see the right guy if he's standing right in front of you because you'll compare him to your ex, as if your ex is the gold standard for men, even though your ex wasn't right for you.

If you are ready to find the right man, there is a process to attracting the right relationship that will lead you to commitment and lasting love.

The finality of ending a relationship completely by stopping all communication seems so traumatic to many women. The emotional connection in love and that gaping void after a breakup almost feel too difficult to live through. However, every person can start over and attract lasting love with the right guy, leaving the past behind and learning a better pattern for relationship success. Taking this step of courage and faith will allow you the time necessary to focus on changes that will bring the right man into your life.

You can being now. Leave the past where it needs to stay and embrace the bright future you so greatly deserve. I have helped countless individuals reach their relationship goals in love. If you are tired of status quo and want the complete package in love, let's talk about the proactive steps you can take starting today.

Nancy Pina is a highly recognized author, relationship coach and speaker. She is dedicated to helping individuals attract emotionally healthy relationships through her practical, Christian-based advice. Visit here for articles, exercises, coaching options and recent books

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Recent books: What to Look for in a Man, Attract the Lasting Love of your Life

 

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