You make thoughtful relationship choices. You do not accept dates from just anyone. You take the time to develop meaningful friendships with guys you are attracted to, not only by their looks, but their character, morals and values. You do not rush intimacy, but instead look for the signs that he is a person of integrity and honor. Again, you think with your wise heart, not your rationalizations and not with your feelings.
My years as a Christian relationship coach has taught me it is never too late to attract the right one. You can break bad relationship patterns and succeed in love if you are willing to first establish a strong foundation built on faith in God. It is not the quick fix one generally looks for, but it is a lasting solution that will allow you to see the right guy for love, commitment and marriage.
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