The flow of your life choices works like this:
- Thoughts lead to actions;
- Actions lead to habits;
- Habits shape character; and
- Character determines your destiny.
Being goal-oriented in your personal life is just as important as it is in your career aspirations. When you make the decision to sit in front of your computer, clicking on one friend after another, checking out random postings, ask yourself: "Will the time I spend on reading this information take me where I want to go in life and love?"
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When you know where you have been in love, how you got there and where you want to go, you can achieve the dreams and desires of your heart. Love is an attainable goal that takes planning. Start by embracing thoughts and actions that line up with where you want to go. Regular, nightly Facebook surfing does not lead to an abundant life, rich in emotional connectedness with those you love.
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