to the YourTango newsletter!

Continue to Site »»

ProConnect

How Facebook Is Ruining Your Relationship

By . Posted on .

couple in bed computer angry
Is he always online?
Don't let social media interfere with your love life.

The flow of your life choices works like this:

  • Thoughts lead to actions;
  • Actions lead to habits;
  • Habits shape character; and
  • character determines your destiny.

Being goal-oriented in your personal life is just as important as it is in your career aspirations. When you make the decision to sit in front of your computer, clicking on one friend after another, checking out random postings, ask yourself: "Will the time I spend on reading this information take me where I want to go in life and love?"

More from YourTango: When Is The Right Time To Get Married?

When you know where you have been in love, how you got there and where you want to go, you can achieve the dreams and desires of your heart. Love is an attainable goal that takes planning. Start by embracing thoughts and actions that line up with where you want to go. Regular, nightly Facebook surfing does not lead to an abundant life, rich in emotional connectedness with those you love.

More from YourTango: Love & Faith: Why Your Marriage Will Succeed Because Of Religion

Nancy Pina is a highly recognized author, relationship coach and speaker. She is dedicated to helping individuals attract emotionally healthy relationships through her practical, Christian-based advice. Visit here for articles, exercises, coaching options and recent books.

Article contributed by
Advanced Member

Nancy Pina

Relationship Coach

Nancy Pina, Relationship Coach

Contact: 832-566-0800

Recent books: What to Look for in a Man, Attract the Lasting Love of your Life

 

Location: Houston, TX
Credentials: Other
Specialties: Dating/Being Single Support, Forgiveness, Spiritual
Other Articles/News by Nancy Pina:

When Is The Right Time To Get Married?

By

Some common questions people ask me about marriage are: "With so many life options, how do you know when you should get married?" "When should you be dating just to have fun?" and "Is it ever too early to start thinking about these major life decisions?" As a relationship coach and former matchmaker, I can confidently say that ... Read more

Love & Faith: Why Your Marriage Will Succeed Because Of Religion

By

As a Christian relationship coach, the foundation of my work is based on faith. Without proper structure, you cannot know what to expect in love, especially in marriage. While on a mental or cultural level it may appear to be financially more feasible to raise a family alone, research shows that traditional models of marriage provide greater personal ... Read more

Will Smith: Why 'Inner Vows' About Parenting Can Be Dangerous

By

Growing up with a military father in a strict home environment, somewhere along the way, Will Smith must have made an inner vow about how he would raise his children. According to The Sun, Smith's son Jaden has asked to be legally emancipated from his parents once he reaches his 15th birthday in July. (Will and Jaden Smith have since set the record ... Read more

See More

Recent Expert Posts
Walk

Can A Retreat Save Your Marriage?

A couples retreat can bring intimacy, renewal and healing if you've been neglected or feel betrayed

Watermelon

Teaching a child Empathy is as easy as celebrating Memorial Day.

does your child know the TRUE story behind Memorial Day? Or would that be too much of a bummer...

abandonment

Abandonment Issues: How Are They Affecting Your Love Life?

You accept the love you think you deserve.

Ask The Experts

Have a dating or relationship question?
Visit Ask YourTango and let our experts and community answer.

Resources
How to find the right pro for you
10 Reasons Mental Health Pros Should Join YourTango Experts

10 Reasons Mental Health Pros Should Join YourTango Experts

YourTango Experts can help your business go from good to great.

10 Steps To Improve Your Coaching Business

Take your coaching business from mediocre to great in no time…

Frequently Asked Questions About YourTango Experts

Thinking of joining? Here's all the facts you need to know to make the most of your membership.

Getting Your Guy To Join You In A Therapy Or Coaching Session

So how can your get your strong, self-reliant, superman to talk to an Expert with you?

Therapist/Counselors: Who We Are & What We Do

What exactly does a therapist/counselor do and can they really help?

See more resources>
HOT STUFF!
FROM OUR PARTNERS