- Is this a person of integrity?
- Do we share primary life and relationship goals?
- Are we really compatible and do we share the basic priorities in life?
It is vital to look beyond the physical attraction and figure out how you two can work together as a potential couple.
Step Five: Think and Speak Love Success. When you talk to your friends about your potential for love, is it filled with positive affirmations or laced with sarcasm? Ask yourself, “Will this thought get me where I want to go in love?” If you think you will attract people who are losers, disrespectful of your time, unreliable and untrustworthy ... then your thoughts and words will take you in that very direction. Every thought you embrace and comments you make regarding love must agree with your ultimate goal.
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New beginnings need fresh approaches to gain the desired result of meeting the right person. Making small, but significant changes in your outlook and attitude toward love will ultimately lead to the relationship goal you desire.
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