9 Props For Your Hurts-So-Good 'Fifty Shades Of Grey' Toy Box

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From the mild to the wild, must-haves for your pleasure chest.

So, you've read Fifty Shades of Grey. You're planning to see the movie.  You have googled bondage and BDSM and you've slipped through some books at the bookstore trying to get a handle on what you want to add in to spice up your sex life.  

You're probably not looking to go full on Kink, but adding something kinky into the play would be just perfect.

Here are 9 things you can give this Valentine's Day to add an element of BDSM to the bedroom.

1.  Blindfolds: You want to heighten your senses? Take one away. Blindfolds can help us lose our inhibitions and take it up a notch. If you want to up the ante and release your inner dirty girl, try being blindfolded. It's much easier to let go and give in when you aren't worried about what you look like.

2.  Silk Tie-Ups: Soft and easy to move around in, having your wrists or ankles bound by silk is a super sexy way of experiencing being tied up. They can double as blindfolds as well. You don't have to worry about marks on your wrists or ankles as you can tie them loosely. You can also simply wrap them around your wrists or ankles for an easier escape if need be.

3.  Handcuffs: Ths is a very traditional item in most BDSM pleasure chests. They can represent the ultimate power exchange for many people. You can purchase quick release ones that are easy to undo. You can buy some fun ones covered in pink or red fuzzy fabric.  Or you can go for the next level and purchase real handcuffs that need a key to get out of them. Purchase a couple pairs and get creative.

4.  Rope: Want something that will leave a mark? Try rope! There are intricate knots and patterns you can learn to tie. You can try different types of rope but be sure to take advice from experts and choose a type of rope that isn't going to injure your partner's skin.

5.  Spanking Paddle: A good spank here and there for any couple can be exciting and push the boundaries in the bedroom. Adding in a paddle ups the naughtiness and can create a whole new sensation. Paddles come in leather, plastic, wooden and various other coverings to inflict a higher sting level. Make sure you know what you're buying and how it reacts with skin. The last thing you want to leave a mark you didn't intend.

6.  Crop: A crop carries with it an air of command. It has a military bend to it, and can leave quite a mark on the skin when used properly. There are some lightweight crops and some heavy duty crops. Make an adventure out of it and choose one together.

7.  Flogger: This implement is not for the beginner. There is a technique and finese to using a flogger. Different weights and materials are used in floggers. If you have had some experience in BDSM or have a partner wiling to do some learning on their own on how to use a flogger, this item is a very fun one to add to you toy box.

8.  Hot Wax: Many stores now have candles that are made from soy wax. It doesn't burn at the high temperatures of parafin wax. If you are not familiar with sensory play, a soy wax is much easier on the skin and less likely to leave marks. Wax can be used to increase sensitivity on the skin. When it's dripped on the skin while blindfolded you can really begin to see how your partner reacts to temperature and loosing one of their senses. 

9.  Wartenburg Wheel: This item is generally made out of stainless steel and has evenly spaced pins or pricks that stimulate nerve sensitivity. A very light pressure is needed to elicit a response from your partner. This is an advanced tool, and there are many organizaitons in every city that have classes on BDSM. I highly recommend you look into classes if you want to take your BDSM to the next level.

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