Are You Too Needy?

By

Are You Too Needy? [EXPERT]
Find out the difference between having needs and being needy!

Not being clear and firm about your needs also stops you from respecting his needs. For example, a "needy" woman who is afraid to be clear about her needs may hold everything inside and act overly chipper and nice, inviting the man out places and offering to help him with things, etc., even though he has stated or implied that he wants space. This feels weird to him and can even appear psycho.

In a relationship, when asking to get your needs met, you must stick to your personal boundaries. For example, you don't tell a man you need sexual exclusivity and then sleep with him anyway. You must love yourself enough to actually take care of your real needs, like sexual exclusivity and male respect.

 

Don't confuse neediness with needing things. You want him to know that you aren't a doormat and that you have serious needs in a relationship that must be met. He will find this very attractive if you state your needs without seeming like a demanding, huffy diva or a weakling who is afraid to speak up.

If he can see that you are a sweet, fun, loving, smart and sexy girl who is on a path to commitment and will settle for little else, he will treat you like a goddess and never call you needy. He will call you classy wife-material. He will feel honored to service your requests ... or he will respect you enough to not use you for sex or female companionship. The Secret To Better Relationships

Also by Kristina: Red Rose Woman: The Enchantress Inside You 

Sign Up For Kristina's Love Advice Newsletter & Learn Her 5 Goddess Tips That Will Change Your Love Life Forever!

Article contributed by

Ms. Kristina Marchant

Author

Is the man you love emotionally distant?  Maybe he runs hot then cold, or maybe he has slowly been distancing himself over time?  If so, you are have something in common with the women who read and follow my blog, ConnectWithHisHeart.com  Come take a look and sign up there for my free mini-course: "Why Men Fall In & Out Of Love...  And What You Can Do"

 

 

Location: Miami, FL
Credentials: Other
Other Articles/News by Ms. Kristina Marchant:

The Lies We Tell Ourselves When We Are Dumped

By

Pulling your hair out, perplexed and frustrated as to why the man you love doesn't seem to reciprocate your unrequited love? After all, you know that no other woman will ever be as caring and loving as you are with him. Your friends have given up trying to convince you that you're too good for him. He may have even told you that you deserve better. But ... Read more

He Relishes Your Attention But Could He Ever Love You?

By

He returns your text messages. He calls you back. He takes you up on invitations to spend time together. He eats your cooking and humbly accepts your gifts. Maybe he even admits that he deeply cares for you. But, he gets an 'F' for effort. If you don't reach out, he's M.I.A. He won't initiate contact. He doesn't buy you gifts or ... Read more

How To Spot & Release Emotionally Unavailable Men

By

A relationship when both partners are "all-in" is tough enough. But when your man is emotionally unavailable, things are so much harder. You're committed to making things work, but he just won't open up. A tell-tale sign of an emotionally unavailable man is a lack of empathy; check for these signs before you get too committed. Although my ... Read more

See More

 
Latest Expert Videos
ASK YOURTANGO MORE QUESTIONS
Must-see Videos
SEE MORE VIDEOS
Most Popular