How To Improve Your Intimacy Quotient & Lure Him In
By Ms. Kristina Marchant. Posted on .
Old Hollywood actresses were MASTERS at communicating with their eyes. They were able to speak without words because they were thinking about very specific, vulnerable, intimate things and they were expressing these things to the other person silently in their head.
Next time you are with your man, look at him and silently tell him with your 'head voice' that you think he is amazing. Then wait for him to connect with your message and smile at you. Don't shy away from his smile or expression, but instead catch it like a butterfly in a child's net and smile back.
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Moments like these, where nothing is said, but everything is felt and communicated through expression are so hot, it's unbelievable. Men LOVE a woman who can glance at them from across a crowded room and express tender intimacy with her eyes, as if no one but him is around for miles.
Listen Well to capture his Heart
A man-magnet is a woman who knows how to open a man up like an oyster. She knows exactly how to get him revealing all his secret truths to her in a way that makes him think she's HIS pearl!
When a man exposes his touching life stories and darkest thoughts to a woman, he automatically feels less lonely. He feels understood and safe to reveal. This kind of feeling equals intimacy and it's the breeding ground for profound love and passionate romance!
The best way to get him to reveal himself is to be a wonderful listener. There is nothing more comforting and appealing in a mate than an empathic and patient ear.
In order to make sure you are listening well, don't distract yourself with other tasks, like using your phone. Try really hard to listen with your eyes as well as your ears. What is his expression saying? Even if he is laughing about something, is he vulnerable too?
When you can notice the feelings that stir under the surface of his words, you are showing him that you not only hear his words but also everything behind them. Doing this creates a connection so deep that he will immediately feel like he has known you his whole life and that you deeply 'get him'.
Spellbind Him with Caresses
Touch is so important to men. Women use more words than men to connect and men need more touches than women do. So in the same way that a man's loving words can make you feel special and deeply understood, your tender caresses can make a man feel truly important. Men LOVE to feel important in the eyes of a woman. It makes them feel like real men.
Touch also helps to soothe a man faster than any words you can offer him, and a woman who can soothe a man is a woman he will love for life. Men have many stresses on them these days and feeling like there is a soft, feminine woman in their life who can ease that stress will make him shelf his male freedoms and commit.
When you are with a man, take moments when you feel that he needs your reassurance or comfort and give him tender caresses that communicate to him that you care and that you are available for his needs!
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When you touch him, let your fingertips be curious about his skin's texture and temperature. Imagine that his skin is delicate and sensitive. These imagines will help you to touch him with less tension.
