How To Make Him Addicted To You Using Goddess Energy


How To Make Him Addicted To You Using Goddess Energy
Goddess energy has nothing to do with looks, smarts or sense of humor... It's all about emotion.

Staying grounded means nothing if you have put up emotional walls to men.  Goddess energy is all about being fluid, and that means no walls.  Emotional walls make you stiff and brittle—both physically and emotionally.  They keep a man from knowing you and if he can’t know you, he can’t love you.

Until a man knows you, he will only love an idea of you.  The problem with having a man love a fantasy of you is that sooner or later you will disappoint him—you are human not a fantasy woman.  But when you show your whole self to him, something happens inside him and suddenly he loves you FOR your flaws.  That’s when a real emotional connection takes place and you make him addicted to you.

How To Remove Emotional Walls

The best way to remove walls is to have personal boundaries.  What will you absolutely not accept or tolerate in a relationship?  When you know these things and stand up for yourself when the lines have been crosses, you start to trust yourself.  When you trust yourself, you open up to others because you have faith that you can take care of yourself no matter what a man does.  THIS equals goddess energy.

To share your boundaries with a man, make it very simple.  Say, “I feel angry and I don’t want to feel like the man I love is flirting with other women.”  And then don’t say another word.  With an open heart, look at him and wait for his response.  If he begins to backtrack, make excuses, tell you that he isn’t ready to be committed to you, etc. then say, “This is how I feel and I need to take care of myself right now so that I don’t get angrier.”  And then go do something by yourself that makes you happy.

Practice Sharing Your Personal Boundaries Leading From Goddess Energy

Remember the 3 things that give a woman goddess energy:
She’s grounded
She’s open
She’s strong

Now go to the mirror and look at yourself in the mirror.  Take a moment to feel your feet on the floor, connected to the earth, then open your heart and say to yourself (as if your reflection is a man):

“I know who I am and I won’t accept anything but love and respect, which I will also give to you.”

How did that feel?  How did that look?

Were you frozen and numb in your body?  Were you seeping with anger?  Were you trying to minimalize the pain with laughter and a cynical tone?  Were you crying with deep despair?

Say it again and this time try to be as soft, tender, warm and loving as possible.  Still feel all the same feelings, but don’t try to hide them, just try to let these feelings turn into love.  Try to smooth over the tension in your face and allow your eyes to meet your own eyes in a long and caring stare.

Imagine that you are “tenderizing” your reflection and seducing yourself with loving, open, inviting, hypnotic, all-trusting, all-giving goddess energy.  DON’T reach out or try to soothe your reflection with a hand gesture.  Stay grounded in your spot and don’t come toward your reflection.  Send love without moving forward.

Article contributed by
Advanced Member

Ms. Kristina Marchant


Is the man you love emotionally distant?  Maybe he runs hot then cold, or maybe he has slowly been distancing himself over time?  If so, you are have something in common with the women who read and follow my blog,  Come take a look and sign up there for my free mini-course: "Why Men Fall In & Out Of Love...  And What You Can Do"



Location: Miami, FL
Credentials: Other
Other Articles/News by Ms. Kristina Marchant:

He Relishes Your Attention But Could He Ever Love You?


He returns your text messages. He calls you back. He takes you up on invitations to spend time together. He eats your cooking and humbly accepts your gifts. Maybe he even admits that he deeply cares for you. But, he gets an 'F' for effort. If you don't reach out, he's M.I.A. He won't initiate contact. He doesn't buy you gifts or ... Read more

How To Spot & Release Emotionally Unavailable Men


A relationship when both partners are "all-in" is tough enough. But when your man is emotionally unavailable, things are so much harder. You're committed to making things work, but he just won't open up. A tell-tale sign of an emotionally unavailable man is a lack of empathy; check for these signs before you get too committed. Although my ... Read more

Angling For A Proposal? Here's How To Reel Him In


You love him and you know he's the one; he says he loves you but admits he's not sure if you're his forever woman. Ouch. This not only hurts like hell — it's maddening. In your heart, you know that he loves you and would be miserable without you in his life, but your head tells you that you're acting like a fool, waiting around ... Read more

See More


Sign up for our daily email and get the stories everyone is talking about.

Ask The Experts

Have a dating or relationship question?
Visit Ask YourTango and let our experts and community answer.