DON’T go on and on in your letter and squeeze in every moment of every memory or get into detail about all your feelings about him and his need for space. Too many words will feel draining and overwhelming for him.
Now, once he does take the space, have a friend on hand. Have a friend you can call when you are jonesing to contact him and make sure this friend is POSITIVE and CALMING. Tell them that you only need their strength and patience, not their fears and opinions.
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A good friend will understand what you mean and will be available to you at this hard time.
Mediate, focus on things you love, don’t do things you don’t love to do and give yourself permission to feel your feelings without marinating in them too long.
In the end, if he comes back, let him guide the pace of things—because you love him and are willing to surrender control over the unknown and control over the relationship.
And, remember, sometimes it takes space to close a gap.
Sending You Love,
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