So think about the way your problematic man makes you feel, express those feelings to him, and take inventory of his 'level of willingness' to take care of you. If his level of willingness is low, don't fool yourself into thinking that he just needs to be loved more purely and deeply by you in order to want a real relationship with you.
You deserve a man's willingness to love you, at the very least! And he deserves not to be auditioned for the sake of your ego, but instead should be handed a part in your play from the moment you decide to show him the script.
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Until then, I'd rather you step off his porch and outta his life than ever be a man's doormat!
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