Write down your strengths as a woman who men adore.
Writing down empowering mantras and self-descriptions makes them more concrete. It allows us to believe them and remember them more than if we leave them as passing thoughts. It makes dream self-images into GOAL self-images.
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Write down adjectives that describe your unique feminine allure. Are you enticing, witty, mysterious, sassy and sulfuric?
Do the If I Was An Animal Exercise and ask yourself, “If my feminine side was an animal, what would she be?”
- Pick something sexy and dangerous like a black widow spider that gently lures unassuming men in with her frail elegance and nimble touch. Give her a name like Sardinia the Spider.
- Pick something soft, sweet, cuddly and adorable like a fluffy white bunny rabbit that knows how to snuggle and melt men’s heart’s everywhere.
Don’t judge it as immature and silly, just allow yourself to have fun!
Open your imagination and let your mind fuel your confidence and awaken your feminine power. So often our minds lead us to negative thoughts that kill our self-belief and trust in men. If you can allow your thoughts to be creative and silly, it will help you feel freer to be more playful, trusting and light with men.
It will also empower your feisty, tumultuous side and get you writing about fictional aliases. Some of mine are Debbie Dare-to-Love-Me McDaniels, the wild, free-spirited outlaw who wears red lipstick and ripped panty hose or Brenda Breathless, a modern femme fatale whose cleavage cuts through male hearts like an AK47.
Get creative, don’t take yourself too seriously and let your imagination dictate where it takes your pen on the page. Dare to have FUN thinking and writing about how alluring you are to the opposite sex.
If you want to know more about using your words and body to magnetize a man, take a peek at my newest eBook Red Rose Woman: The Enchantress Inside You. I have come up with 27 enchantress secrets that will have you feeling and acting like a modern enchantress who pulverizes the hearts of men, in her sleep!
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