3 Ways To Be Sensual When Out On A Date

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3 Ways To Be Sensual When Out On A Date
A sensual woman can help a man lose himself in the moment and feel his own aliveness.

Feminine energy is all about “just being” and staying in the present moment.  When you are fully in the “now”, you are fully in your senses.  You are sensual

Men love women who can stay in the moment with them and can help them get out of their heads (where they are swimming in thoughts of work pressures and other life responsibilities) and live in their own aliveness.  A woman who can help guide a man to his own senses and feelings is the kind of goddess that men search their lives to find. How To Be More Intimate & Enchant Men Effortlessly

Here are 3 ways to be sensual and live more fully in the moment when on a first date with a man:

How To Be Sensual When Dating Men: Stay With Your Feelings & Voice Them

A sensual woman is fully in her body and listens to her heart.  She is sensitive to how her environment affects her senses and knows when she's blissful in a moment and when she's irritated.  Too many people ignore their feelings and disconnect from them in order not to appear difficult to others.  This puts you in your head and takes you out of the moment.  Resentments build and you lose your sense of playful enjoyment with the company you keep.

When on a first date, instead of stifling your negative feelings about something a date says that irks you or the unpleasant temperature in a restaurant or movie theater, speak up.  Don’t get dramatic about it, just say, with confidence, that you are uncomfortable:

“I feel a little perturbed with what you just said.  Could you help me understand what you meant.”
“This theater is really cold.  I think I’ll go ask to turn down the air.”

The key is to listen to your feelings, give them a voice and move on.  Try to get back to a positive connection.  That should be your aim—to be constantly doing what you can to stay happy in your heart.  This means not ignoring negative sensory input but dealing with it fast and effectively.  This allows you and him a more positive space to get connected.

Use Words Effectively To Create “Sensory Bonding”

Every moment experienced with a man is a chance to let him inside your world and intoxicate him with your unique essence.  Nothing does that more effectively than words. Your words are windows into your soul, so choose wisely.  

A man doesn't fall in love with a woman because she shares the same ideas and morals as him. A man may respect and care about a woman for these reasons, but he falls in love with the vulnerability in a woman.   A woman’s exposed vulnerability makes a man want to protect and care for her.

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