Are You A Good First Date?

By Julie Ferman. Posted on Apr 11th 2012.

Are your first dates a hit-or-miss experience? Or more like a hit and run?

The lesson? You be the one to make sure that each of your first dates is an experience for you and for the person who is fortunate enough to join you on the ride. This new meeting? It's a gift, a present that you get to unwrap. Set the stage for the unwrapping using a little thought and creativity!

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Julie Ferman, Founder

Cupid's Coach

Awarded Best Matchmaker: 2013, 2012, 2011, 2010 by iDate and Online Personals Watch

Location: Westlake Village, CA

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Specialties: Dating/Being Single Support, Life Management, Matchmaking

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