All Swingers Are Nymphos? Wrong! The Truth About Swingers

Love, Sex

Swingers shouldn't be generalized as nymphos.

Swinging is a lifestyle that is quickly gaining popularity. Consequently, it has become a hot topic; so I feel the time is right to clear up a few misconceptions that some people have with regard to swingers and swinging. Although these are not all of the misconceptions, they are the most common ones we tend to hear about lately or experience. Continue reading to find out more about the lifestyle of swingers.

Simply because a couple chooses to swing does not mean they are willing to sleep with everyone or anyone. Some men tend to assume that a woman who swings is available and as such will have sex with them. Married women on the other hand are treated with respect by the same men. However, just like married women, a majority of the swingers are not as easy as the average person.

Despite what some people think, people who swing are not fat, old and ugly. Most generally fall between the ages of 25 to 40. In fact, some may even pass of as models. Although some may be full-figured, they are very sexy. There is a mix of the average person, professionals, business owners and parents. As a matter of fact, all types of people have embraced this lifestyle; therefore, you cannot really stereotype swingers as such. They are normal people just like everyone else.

Swingers cannot also be generalized as nymphomaniacs. People who swing are not looking for the next fix or someone to take to bed and take advantage of. Even though swingers love sex and appear more adventurous than monogamous couples, they do not need to have sex three or more times every day. Most have sexual urges that are deemed normal.

Even though most people who lead this lifestyle flirt a lot, it does not imply they will rip off your clothes and immediately jump to bed with you. Swingers are free spirited and more flirtatious. However, you are bound realize that some are an exception to this rule. Generally, the interest may be shown easily but it does not mean the actions will go beyond flirting.

Just because some people swing does not necessarily imply they have fetishes and kinky sex. Even if some are into fetishes and kinky sex, majority of couples choose to have sex with other couples in the same room. Whips and chains are not necessarily used. These are just misconceptions and couples who choose this lifestyle are normal people contrary to popular belief.

The truth is swingers are mostly selective and they engage in sexual activities with people who may not necessarily be part of their marriage. However, they tend to have sex with people they are mostly attracted to and not just anyone.

Furthermore, the couples also swing together and not separately. So, it would not be appropriate to think someone single can get similar privileges. Swingers tend to be happier as couples in monogamous relationships, more open and willing to discover more about sexuality and sex while enjoying the activities with both their partners together with other couples.

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