Learn how threesomes can drastically benefit your relationship!
By Mike Hatcher — Written on Nov 03, 2014
If your relationship is becoming stale in the bedroom department then there a variety of ways in which you can spice it up. In all honesty, toys and dressing up can sometimes not deliver as well as something like a threesome. There's nothing quite like it to get you lusting after your partner once again. Bringing another woman into your sex life and participating in a female-female-male (FFM) is something that many benefits. Here are some:
1. It's His Biggest Fantasy
Giving your man the opportunity to fulfill what is probably his biggest fantasy is such an amazing thing to do. Perhaps you could surprise him on his birthday with the unusual, but hot, gift? This will make him respect and admire you even more than what he already does. Finding a girl to partake in the threesome should be quite easy. You can approach one of your female friends with the proposition or take your search online to find the perfect girl for the job.
2. It'll Stop Him From Cheating
Some people think that having a threesome of any kind when in a relationship can make your partner more likely to cheat in the future, when it actually does the complete opposite. It reduces the man's (and woman's) likelihood of cheating, because why would they need to when they are enjoying a fresh and kinky encounter with their partner present and joining in?
3. Everything Should Be Tried At Least Once
Great sex and possible new experiences is guaranteed for the three people involved. I'm of the understanding that you should try everything at least once. The mere fact that things are changed up will make the sex 10 times better than what you are used to. You will feel so much more sexually liberated and will want to experiment with different positions when partaking in the threesome. You might learn things about your body that you never even knew yourself.
4. Anything But "Vanilla"
Vanilla sex can be nice enough on occasion but a FFM threesome is anything but vanilla. Whether you want to continue having threesomes will depend entirely on your feelings and experience, but you will take with you the skills that you learned. You are also more likely to try new positions when you and your partner are one-on-one.
5. Learn to Trust on a Higher Level
A threesome can make your emotional relationship with your partner better because you will learn to trust them on a higher level. Presenting your man with two naked bodies can be a real test for him and the fact that you are giving him that opportunity means you have a solid and trusting relationship. This is only to get more trusting as you experience new sexual encounters together, but it might be an idea to put some "ground rules" in place before you begin, such as no kissing the other woman on the lips (if this is something that you would not be comfortable with).
In conclusion, a threesome might not be for everybody, but some people brush off the idea without really thinking of the benefits. There are definitely more positive points than negative, and having fun with another woman and your man in the bedroom could be the best decision you've ever made. You may also want to read up on FFM threesome stories before you make the plunge.