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Why are women embracing voyeurism to spice up their relationship? Read more to find out.

Some women like to be a voyeur and watch another women being pleased, knowing a man is with her. In this article, we will cover why women enjoy watching their boyfriends or husbands have sex with another woman.

It Turns Them On

For women, watching or spying on their partners having sex can be considered an asset. It turns them on and works as a mental booster to them, as it involves no jealousy. It simply offers a mental turn on.

Men and Feelings 

To a committed man with relationship-phobia, it may sound a little weird that his wife loves watching him have sex with another woman. For most men, it may sound quite conventional.


Back in the 1950s, the idea of watching a husband have sex with another woman was taboo. There has been a drastic change in the way women think. Nowadays, women love watching their husband do this, and most women see nothing wrong with having a threesome at some point in their life.

Voyeurism and Swinging

Voyeurism in women can be described by their act of deriving pleasure from watching their husband have sex with someone else. It may sometimes be related to spying. Watching someone while the prospect is getting undressed, or watching someone who is engaged in intimate sexual behaviors, may end up providing a clearer definition of voyeurism in women.

Voyeurism is not to be confused with swinging. Swinging is quite different from voyeurism and is defined as an act of engrossing oneself in sexual intercourse.

Here are some ways women can benefit from watching their significant other with someone else:

1. Is true love a myth?

A woman who truly loves her husband or boyfriend doesn't allow him to sleep with another woman. Most women believe that their husband won't have sexual encounters with other women because they trust in true love. It may be true in their eyes, but what about the conquests that don't meet the eye? The idea of true love becomes quite clear for some women by watching their husband engage in sex with others.

2. Release of sexual tension

Voyeurism in women helps to release unwanted sexual tension, as men are more often believed to have crazier sex drives than women. Men often tend to cheat on women because they have craze for other women, rather than their female counterparts. Sex with consensus is never a bad idea, so allowing your husband to have sex with other women and loving to watch releases surmountable sexual tension that has accumulated.

3. Peace of mind

"Space" is an important factor for a relationship. The more space you give to your partner, the better your relationship will be. Most women today understand this fact and give their husband space. When it comes to watching their husband with others, they say it gives their husband a peace of mind.

4. Sexual health is of utmost importance

Men are often more prone to having multiple sex partners, which triggers an alarm for STDs. When you allow your husband to have sex and you enjoy the show, your husband takes it easy. He tends to adopt the safety precautions, and safeties should definitely be a major concern.

5. Hidden sexual desires and preferences

Most of the women tend to enjoy sex less. It is because they have weird desires of not having sex, but enjoying others having sex. It becomes easy for them to allow their husbands to have sex with other women. Fear of a weird reaction from their love leads women to adopt strange ways of allowing their men to sleep with another woman.

6. A second woman?

Most of the time, another woman becomes the most possible option for women. Swinging has become the ultimate solution to today's fetishes and hidden sexual desires. Women fear divulging their hidden sexual desires to their men, because to them, it may lead to some odd perception about them to their men.

7. Your marriage is at stake

Most women think of keeping their marriages intact, whatever it may come to. It may be a second woman most of the time. Swinging has inevitably helped most of the couples in the world to save their marriages. When sacrifice is a solution to a further graver problem, there is nothing wrong in enjoying your partner having sex with another woman. 

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