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The Dilemma Of Big Breast And MEN—Make Any Size MATTER


Do you want big breast?—Get the facts before going under the knife!

I would venture to say that most of us as women have pondered this question a time or two in our lives, even if just for a second. You may not like the idea of plastic surgery but having bigger breasts to attract the opposite sex may force you to give it more consideration. What is it about bigger breasts that make women envious of other women and men turn their heads to gaze at her? As much as we hate the idea of changing ourselves physically, there is certainly an allure with being able to walk in a crowded room and become the center of attention.

You see, I live and dwell in an industry where the right look could get you a date quickly. So I can’t say that having bigger breasts doesn’t have some type of influence in a woman’s life. In fact, I do plenty of shows and competitions where I know for certain that a woman who has bigger breasts will almost always get a slight edge over her peers. As women, we all know this is secretly true. We just hope and pray that it isn’t everything when it comes to evaluating the quality of a woman.

Big breasted women are associated with fertility and that makes them very attractive to the opposite sex. Having firm, upward tilting breasts resembles that of a younger woman vs an older woman who may have sagging, tubular type breasts because of her age. Think about the classic movie stars such as a young Marilyn Monroe, Jayne Mansfield, and Lana Turner who graced the movie screen tempting the world with their allure. It’s interesting too because if you ask any Alpha male why he likes big breasts so much, I’m almost sure he wouldn’t be able to tell you. You see, he doesn’t know why he likes them … he just knows that he does ...

Of course there are drawbacks as with any good thing, right? Many women with large breasts complain of the pain they feel based on the heaviness of their breasts on their backs. They also complain their clothes may not fit so well since they are so top heavy as compared to the rest of their bodies. They end up having to get plastic surgery to have them reduced in size to eliminate such challenges. Also, when women get breast implants, there is always a chance of leakage from the implant that may cause infection to the rest of her body. The verdict is still out on how safe these are relative to the risk factor that these may actually be doing the body more harm than good.

But let’s get back to the question of does having bigger breasts enhance our attractiveness? Well, the answer is both yes and no. The ideal body shape is that of an hourglass figure so enhancing one’s breast size particularly when your cup size is an A or B may actually help you to achieve the ideal body while also helping you to fit your clothes properly. This in turn, helps you to have a more pleasing body silhouette creating more of an allure to the opposite sex. 

But there is such a thing as "too much of a good thing." Enhancing your breasts a cup size of two is one thing … going up to a double D is quite another. First, this may be totally unrealistic for your body size and secondly, you may actually get some unwanted attention because of it. Find the right balance to proportion your body well with regards to bigger breasts is the key.

Now for those of you small chested women who would love to enhance your breasts without plastic surgery, I have good news for you! You can always pad your bra! I know you knew that already but there are so many new and improved ways to enhance your chest without having to go under the knife. You can also proportion your body with clothes to give you the look and feel of someone with bigger breasts as well. And don’t forget about exercise. Yes, exercise can actually help your breasts become more firm. Breast tissue is made up of fat. So what happens when you exercise?  That’s right … you burn fat! Those are just a few examples. You see, you don’t have to have plastic surgery nor be ashamed of your chest to look great and still be able to capture the attention of men. 

In short, women will always desire having bigger breasts, particularly when they see the attention they have on men and in society. But we as women don’t all have to have the same chest size to attract the opposite sex. There have been lots of women who have had boyish type figures and men loved them too! So before you decide to go under the knife, think about other alternatives to enhancing your chest size. And just remember "beauty will almost always attract men, but appearances can only go so far, it is not the hook."

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