The advice is simple: become an expert in what your mate does RIGHT.
That's all. I actually made a webisode dedicated to this piece of advice:
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Can you imagine dating someone that was an EXPERT in everything you did right? Do you have any idea on how well a relationship that worked on those terms would do? I personally would be addicted to that! :)
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I hope you enjoy the webisode. The advice comes passed along from Dr. Schnarch.
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