If you believe any of this applies to you, then raise your consciousness around the issue. Begin to see how you are recycling childhood helplessness in your adult life. Do you still need to do this? When will it be time to let go of those old feelings and feel your inner resources?
These are the kinds of insights that lead to permanent resolution.
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