5 - How will you find this guy? You’ve been to bars, dating sites and maybe even tried speed dating in an effort to quicken up the process. Not working? Try this: For the next six to twelve months stop looking for a man and start looking for yourself. Do things you’ve always wanted to do and never made time for. Develop a sense of curiosity about what you like and find new ways to experience it with people you don’t already know. Expanding who you are and how you live multiplies the possibilities of the type of men you meet.
Mark Twain said, “When you fish for love, bait with your heart, not your brain.” The more you become you - by developing the right beliefs, gaining clarity and taking new actions - the more you fish for love from the heart of who you are. Which means it’s more likely you’ll attract back the kind of guy who does that too.
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