If you’re already in a committed relationship, this could be the easiest way to make sparks fly. If you usually communicate via text, give him a mid-day call. Hearing his voice will instantly perk you up and he won’t expect it. Let him know you’re thinking of him during the day by sending a flirty email or funny video. When you’re in the bedroom, don’t be shy about telling him what you want and have him do the same. Telling him what you like and where to touch you will increase your pleasure, and in turn, his as well because he knows he’s pleasing you.
8. Be flirty
Just because you’re committed doesn’t mean you have to stop flirting with each other. Go out to dinner with friends and slide your hand a little too high up his leg, interlock your feet from across the table and flash him quick smiles. You can even send him a suggestive text mid-meal! It’ll make him yearn for your date to be over faster so he can get you home. Flirting isn’t only for single people; it brings playfulness to your relationship that is sure to keep the fire lit.
9. Don't slack off
It’s easy to come home after a long day at work and throw on the comfy pair of sweatpants you only wash once a week and an oversized t-shirt before curling up on the couch to watch reality TV. When you get home it’s understandable to want to unwind and relax, but do it in moderation. If you usually wear your sweats, every once in a while slip on a sexy, silky nightgown instead. He’ll be sure to notice!
10. Spend 4th of July alone
Prioritize some alone time this 4th of July. Commit to a staycation, book a hotel in town and find the best local spot to catch the fireworks. Watching fireworks together on a blanket can be romantic and sexy. After they’re over, head back to make some fireworks of your own.