Romance from Venus, Sex from Mars


Romance from Venus, Sex from Mars

  • Healthy Home-Cooked Sex—This style is the basis for a regular, healthy sex life, and usually occurs a couple times a week.  It generally takes about 30 minutes and the Martian ensures that his Venusian has the time she needs to relax, build up her desire and experience orgasm(s).
  • Fast Food Sex and Cuddles—Although junk food would not be good for us as a regular diet, it can be tasty and sometimes it fits well into the schedule.  The same is true for ‘quickies’.   This 3-5 minutes given whenever he feels the need for sexual release and she’s not in the mood, is a great gift that a woman can bestow on her partner and will go a long way to ensuring he continues to feel his love for her.    If you both set some ground rules first, like not expecting her to participate much during quickies, having healthy home-cooked sex on a regular basis and gourmet sex sometimes, plus he will want to reciprocate by giving her the cuddling she needs to feel loved.  This technique can work very well so that never again will he feel rejected and she will always be able to count on him for affection.
  • Gourmet Sex—Indulge in this style of sex at least once a month. A woman needs to be wined, dined and romanced, just like in the early days (and nights) of the relationship. No excuses--put it on the schedule!  Remember the old adage “If mama ain’t happy, then nobody’s happy!” Of course, a romantic getaway is wonderful, but if money is tight, then send the kids to Grandma’s or trade babysitting evenings with the neighbors.  Begin with  a candlelight dinner on Valentine’s Eve and create the best year of sex yet!

Melodie Tucker is a Mars Venus Success Coach and Seminar Leader, trained by Dr. John Gray, author of the world famous "Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus" series. For the past 11 years, she has helped men and women all over the world create great relationships that last. If you'd like more information about this topic, want to learn how you can become a coach, or wish to have personal coaching for your specific situation, you can find her on ProConnect at

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